Lady Gaga has posted a heartfelt tribute to her friend and collaborator, Tony Bennett, following his death earlier this month (Picture: Getty/Instagram/@ladygaga)
Lady Gaga has reflected on the ‘painful but beautiful’ loss of US jazz singer Tony Bennett to Alzheimer’s.
The US singer and actress, 37, broke her silence following the death of her ‘real true friend’ and long-time collaborator Bennett, who died in his hometown of New York age 96 on July 21.
Sharing an emotional post on Instagram, Gaga wrote: ‘I will miss my friend forever. I will miss singing with him, recording with him, talking with him, being on stage together.
‘With Tony, I got to live my life in a time warp. Tony and I had this magical power.
‘We transported ourselves to another era, modernised the music together, and gave it all new life as a singing duo. But it wasn’t an act.
‘Our relationship was very real. Sure he taught me about music, about showbiz life, but he also showed me how to keep my spirits high and my head screwed on straight. ‘Straight ahead’, he’d say.
Bennett and Gaga recorded and sang live together over many years (Picture: Michael Tran/FilmMagic)
His final album, 2021’s Love For Sale with Gaga, won him his final Grammy (Picture: Christopher Polk/WireImage)
The duo performing at the 57th Annual Grammy Awards in Los Angeles on February 8, 2015 (Picture: Robyn Beck/AFP via Getty)
‘He was an optimist, he believed in quality work and quality life. Plus, there was the gratitude… Tony was always grateful.’
At the age of 88, legendary crooner Bennett broke his own record as the oldest living performer with a number one album on the US Billboard 200 chart for his duet project with Gaga, titled Cheek to Cheek.
He had topped the charts three years earlier with Duets II, featuring stars including Gaga, Carrie Underwood and Amy Winehouse, in her last studio recording.
Bennett’s final album in 2021 titled Love For Sale, featured duets with Gaga on the title track, Night And Day and other Cole Porter songs, and won him his last Grammy award.
He retired from performing in 2021 after revealing he had been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2016.
Gaga and Bennett also won a Grammy for best traditional pop vocal album in 2015 with Cheek to Cheek (Picture: Frazer Harrison/Getty Images)
Gaga continued: ‘I’ve been grieving the loss of Tony for a long time. We had a very long and powerful goodbye.
‘Though there were five decades between us, he was my friend. My real true friend.
‘Our age difference didn’t matter – in fact, it gave us each something neither of us had with most people. We were from two different stages in life entirely – inspired.
‘Losing Tony to Alzheimer’s has been painful but it was also really beautiful. An era of memory loss is such a sacred time in a person’s life. There’s such a feeling of vulnerability and a desire to preserve dignity.
‘All I wanted was for Tony to remember how much I loved him and how grateful I was to have him in my life.
‘But, as that faded slowly I knew deep down he was sharing with me the most vulnerable moment in his life that he could – being willing to sing with me when his nature was changing so deeply.
‘I’ll never forget this experience. I’ll never forget Tony Bennett.’
Gaga also shared advice in her powerful and emotional post.
She added: ‘If I could say anything to the world about this I would say don’t discount your elders, don’t leave them behind when things change.
‘Don’t flinch when you feel sad, just keep going straight ahead, sadness is part of it.
‘Take care of your elders and I promise you will learn something special. Maybe even magical.
‘We had a very long and powerful goodbye,’ said Gaga of Bennett’s Alzheimer’s disease (Picture: EPA)
‘And pay attention to silence — some of my musical partner and I’s most meaningful exchanges were with no melody at all.’
Friends and fans were quick to praise Gaga and her partnership with Bennett, with RuPaul’s Drag Race judge Michelle Visage commenting: ‘None of us, not even for a moment, thought it was an act. ❤️’
‘This broke me. Such an iconic duo,’ one fan added.
‘The way you were with him was a masterclass of grace, dignity and love,’ shared another. ‘You’re a class act, through and through. He loved you and it showed.’
More information about Alzheimer’s disease
More information about Alzheimer’s disease and dementia can be found at the Alzheimer’s Society website: alzheimers.org.uk.
You can contact their support line on 0333 150 3456.
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Bennett died at home in New York earlier this month.
