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We know what you’re thinking. Reaching an orgasm is hard enough without trying to reach an orgasm in two spots simultaneously. But hear us out.
A blended orgasm is when you manage to achieve orgasm by stimulating multiple areas of the body simultaneously.
This is usually the clitoris and the G-spot (or G-zone), but can also include other erogenous zones.
While the concept of reaching such a climax may seem far fetched, it doesn’t have to be.
We spoke to Lovehoney sex and relationships expert Annabelle Knight about how to achieve a blended orgasm both on your own and with a partner.
Achieving a blended orgasm on your own
Us ladies know what gets us going, and that’s the key to getting yourself over the edge, even in multiple spots.
Annabelle tells Metro.co.uk: ‘The number one rule with any self-pleasure is to explore your body, and get to know what makes you tick.
‘With a blended orgasm in particular, stimulating the clitoris and G-spot simultaneously is the way to go.
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While in theory you can achieve this without additional help, using a sex toy specifically designed to stimulate both areas at the same time, like the InsideOut, will accelerate this process, and even allow you to explore other erogenous zones, such as the nipples.
Buy the Womanizer InsideOut Rechargeable G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulator for £119.99 at Lovehoney.
Achieving a blended orgasm with a partner
Annabelle says: ‘The same rules apply with a partner, you will still want to mix external and internal stimulation.
‘If having sex with a penis-owner, then you can use a vibrator (or your fingers) to stimulate the clitoris during penetration for an intense blended orgasm.
If you feel you could handle it, you could get a little crazy.
‘Taking this one step further, you could use a couples’ sex toy to give internal and external pleasure all while being penetrated.
‘A c-shape toy such as the Chorus can be worn during sex, to simultaneously vibrate on the clitoris and in between the penis and G-spot during penetration.’
We-Vibe Chorus App and Remote Controlled Rechargeable Couple’s Vibrator £179.99
‘Alternatively,’ she adds. ‘You can have your partner stimulate your G-spot with their fingers or a toy, while you go to work on the clitoris, or vice versa.’
The best positions to try for a blended orgasm
We’ve all got our favourite position, the classic we go to time and time again, but this may not have the best access to stimulate yourself.
Annabelle says: ‘Doggy style is a particularly lucrative position if you are looking to have a blended orgasm during sex, as it gives easy access to stimulate the clitoris during penetration.
‘Similarly, the Cowgirl (woman/vulva-on-top) gives great opportunity for clitoral stimulation during penetration.’
Which sex toys can help you get there
There’s no shame in using toys to get yourself to the finish. In fact, whipping out a toy during can be incredibly sexy.
Annabelle says: ‘Perhaps the most “classic” toy to get you to a blended orgasm is a Rabbit vibrator with clitoral ears – like the Greedy Girl – as it stimulates the G-spot internally while the ears vibrate on the clitoris.
‘The brand-new Womanizer OG is also a great toy for blended orgasm; the first ever Pleasure Air G-spot vibrator, the suction toy can be used on both the clitoris and the G-zone.’
Buy the Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator for £79.99 at Lovehoney.
Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator £79.99
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