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When you shack up with someone who has children, you’re gaining more than a new relationship. But what happens if you butt heads with their brood?
This week, we hear from a reader who can’t stand his wife’s ‘lazy, selfish’ adult son. So much so, that’s he’s given her an ultimatum: either the son moves out or he does.
It is a recipe for disaster? Read the advice below.
Before you go, check out last week’s dilemma, where a husband was using his lovechild to justify his ongoing affair.
The problem…
I found love late in life six years ago, when I fell for the barmaid at our local golf club. She already had a teenage son, who seemed nice enough on the rare occasions I saw him.
When we married two years ago, I moved into her place as she didn’t want to disrupt the boy’s schooling. That was when I realised what a lazy, selfish layabout he is, though things were bearable while he was still in education.
This summer he left school and now stays in bed till lunchtime most days. He has no plans to go to university or work, and rather than contribute financially, my wife actually still gives him pocket money.
He brings his friends home at all hours and plays music that wakes us up. Believe it or not, she will actually make him and his friends egg and chips at three in the morning, so they all think she’s the mum of the century. I’ve tried telling her she spoils him, but her view is that he’s only young and enjoying himself while he has no responsibilities.
Our sex life has fizzled to nothing as I’ve started sleeping in a separate room, so I’m not disturbed when she gets up to cook for him.
I don’t want to give up on my marriage so soon, but I’ve reached the point where either he goes, or I do.
Laura says…
You may disapprove of how your wife treats her son, but trying to lay down the law is likely to unite them against you. After all, they were a unit before you came along and probably have a very strong bond. Perhaps as a single parent she centred her life around him, without realising this was encouraging him to be selfish.
Nevertheless, this is your home too, and as you are presumably sharing the expenses, you’re entitled to expect certain rights.
Your stepson won’t live to your rules just because you married his mum, so try instead to gain his friendship and respect. Take him out for a drink and encourage him to talk about his view of the world. He may be so wrapped up in himself that he doesn’t realise what a pain he’s being, so now is your opportunity to clear up a few things in a non-judgemental way. He’s more likely to try to please a friend than an enemy.
Believe it or not, he’s probably scared of the responsibilities of growing up, so encourage him to look online for ways to get that first job. Point out the plusses of work, like friends, independence and money.
Don’t turn this into a competition for your wife’s affection but do explain to her how the present set-up is harming your marriage. Move back into the bedroom and put renewed effort into your relationship; sulking in the spare room will only make things worse.
Remember that your stepson will eventually leave home. You’ve waited a long time to find love; do you really want to give up on it so soon?
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In the fast-paced world of online shopping there are standout figures.
One of these is, Alexandre Bonvin, whose finance and real estate background, means he is determined not to follow the crowd.
As the founder and CEO of Audacia Group, a Swiss investment holding company specializing in e-commerce, Alexandre is the epitome of modern-day entrepreneurship in action.
Alexandre is a product of the world’s finest educational institutions. A graduate of the London School of Economics with an MSC in Real Estate, Economics & Finance, and a recent alumnus of MIT Sloan’s Executive Program in General Management, he seamlessly merges academic intellect with hands-on business acumen.
In 2018, having identified the boundless potential of the e-commerce sector, Alexandre single-handedly founded Audacia.
This move was followed by the acquisition of its first brand, KissKiss—a Swiss e-shop specializing in adult toys and accessories—marked the beginning of an ambitious journey into the dynamic universe of online retail.
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Today, Audacia Group is not just a company; it is Alexandre’s vision personified. It is a robust network that manages 16 online platforms offering products or services, active in more than 45 countries worldwide, and attending to the needs of over 2.3 million customers.
Alexandre has transformed Audacia from a startup into a formidable presence in the e-commerce landscape.
In e-commerce, adapting is paramount, and Alexandre is aware of this. He points out that the pandemic has significantly altered consumers’ behaviors, propelling e-commerce into greater prominence.
To stay ahead, Alexandre and his team at Audacia work tirelessly to enhance the entire customer experience. They are not mere spectators to the ever-changing world of e-commerce; they are active participants, constantly molding and adapting their strategies to align with market needs and customer expectations.
In 2021, Audacia Group broke new ground by becoming one of the first companies to tokenize its shares on the blockchain.
This move, innovative and audacious—much like Alexandre himself—represents the company’s commitment to leveraging cutting-edge technologies.
Moreover, Alexandre’s insights and accomplishments have garnered attention from various media outlets, from Swiss publications like Bilan and PME Magazine to international platforms like Forbes France and Forbes Europe, further solidifying his reputation as a thought leader in the field.
Part of Alexandre’s strategic brilliance lies in his capacity to look beyond Switzerland’s borders. His aspirations for Audacia are distinctly international.
“I want to make Audacia one of the Swiss references in e-commerce,” he asserts, emphasizing the word ‘Swiss’ but with his eye firmly set on the broader map. Efforts are underway to introduce some of Audacia’s brands in significant English-speaking markets, like the UK and the USA.
These moves are not just growth strategies; they are declarations of ambition that have started bolstering Audacia’s brand recognition in these new territories.
His unique approach to business growth is not just acquiring promising e-commerce companies; he seeks to integrate them seamlessly into Audacia’s existing framework.
For Alexandre, the next few years are clear: support and grow these brands in the best possible way—expanding activities and opening up new markets under the steadfast banner of Audacia.
In the end, it’s not just about business growth or numbers for Alexandre. It’s a passion.
His journey has been about using his skills and learning to give promising e-shops a bigger stage.
With Audacia, Alexandre Bonvin shows us how to navigate the vast world of online shopping, find those hidden treasures, and make them shine for everyone to see.
For more information visit his company page or Instagram
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