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Big Brother’s Kerry has been criticised for the way she handled a conversation around food with housemate Matty.
The discussion took place after the 24-year-old doctor was informed by Zak that Kerry had been discussing his eating habits.
Matty decided to speak directly to Kerry, 40, about the situation.
‘Zak told me about a conversation he was involved in with you and Olivia, about my food consumption,’ he began while sat at the house’s dining table.
‘You had said when I was in the kitchen eating “Oh, do you notice how much food Matty eats?”‘
NHS Manager Kerry defended herself by responding with: ‘Zak was part of it so he’s s**t stirring.’
Matty approached Kerry to voice his annoyance (Picture: ITV2)
Matty then told Kerry he already knew about model Zak’s involvement and added: ‘But you need to realise how important your words can be because you might not understand everyone’s history with certain stuff like that at all.’
‘I am not going to stop talking to people and I don’t feel like I’ve always got to go up to them and them what I’m saying,’ replied Kerry.
‘I don’t think you’re hearing what I’m saying,’ Matty interjected.
Zak told Matty about the conversation (Picture: ITV2)
Kerry then explained her point of view and tried to reassure Matty.
‘I’m hearing what you are saying, but I think you are making a much bigger deal of this than what it is,’ she stated.
‘I’ve got no issue with what you eat, I genuinely think you are being really sensitive about it. And I’m sorry that it’s made you feel that way. I said I’m sorry.’
Matty then accused Kerry of ‘dismissing’ his feelings, and Kerry apologised further.
‘I’m really, really sorry. Look in my eyes, I’m really sorry. Someone is making this more of an issue than it is,’ she added.
Matty felt dismissed by Kerry (Picture: ITV2)
The pair then ended the conversation, and Kerry offered Matty a hug which he politely declined.
Some viewers were unhappy with the way Kerry, who has previously come under fire for using the word ‘gay’ in a negative light, dealt with the issue.
‘I’m glad Matty confronted Kerry for gossiping about how much he eats! She was so defensive and rude, the gaslighting during her apology was wild,’ wrote one person.
Another added: ‘After gaslighting Matty telling him he’s being sensitive Kerry wants a hug?! Typical Karen behaviour.’
‘Matty having to explain to Kerry (a medical professional) that b******g about people’s eating habits is bad….. and it going straight over her head…… no words,’ fumed one viewer.
One person typed: ‘Kerry (who works for the NHS) basically dismissing Matty when he explained how harmful her comments about how much someone eats can be!!!!!! get this horrible horrible woman off my tv rn.’
Following the conversation, Kerry confronted model Zak, 28, about his choice to tell Matty. Zak, who is facing Henry in tonight’s eviction, then went to chat with Matty who called Kerry a ‘mean girl’.
Viewers weren’t entirely happy with how Kerry handled the situation (Picture: Shutterstock for Big Brother)
Director of External Affairs at Beat – the UK’s leading charity supporting those affected by eating disorders – Tom Quinn, warned about the issues that can arise when discussing other people’s eating habits.
‘Pointing out a person’s eating behaviours can contribute to feelings of shame or guilt, which can worsen eating disorder behaviours if the person is already unwell, or contribute to an eating disorder developing,’ he explained.
‘It’s really important to be mindful when talking about food as it can be a very difficult topic for many.’
‘If you’re worried about somebody you know, asking open-ended questions such as ‘How are you feeling, is everything okay?’ will help people feel able to speak openly, rather than drawing attention to behaviours which can make people feel backed into a corner.
‘It’s also important to choose a time and place where you won’t be disturbed and to read about eating disorders beforehand to help you feel more informed.
‘Eating disorders affect 1.25 million people in the UK and we know that many people have complex relationships with food. It’s important that people are able to spot the signs and reach out to their GP if they’re worried about themselves or a loved one.’
If you’re worried about your own or someone else’s health, you can contact Beat, the UK’s eating disorder charity, 365 days a year on 0808 801 0677 or beateatingdisorders.org.uk
Big Brother continues tonight at 9pm on ITV2.
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