The latest advice from Miss Manners has sparked a debate on gift-giving etiquette, genetic test result sharing, and restaurant ordering manners. In a recent column, a mother of two children who recently got married shared her perspective on the importance of sticking to the wedding registry and not imposing one’s own idea of a “thoughtful” gift on the couple. She emphasized that this generation values respect for their wishes and may end up donating unwanted gifts to charity.
Miss Manners responded by highlighting the importance of considering the perspective of those who try to be thoughtful in their gift-giving, even if their efforts may not always align with the couple’s preferences. She also addressed the issue of people sharing detailed genetic test results at social events, labeling it as self-absorption at a cellular level. Miss Manners suggested redirecting the conversation to broader topics or politely excusing oneself from the conversation.
Another reader sought advice on the correct way to order food in a restaurant, with one spouse preferring to say “May I have…” while the other thought it was excessive and preferred “I would like…”. Miss Manners humorously advised against chastising one’s spouse for being too polite.
Lastly, a reader sought guidance on how to respond to a close relative who frequently boasts about their daughter’s wealth. Miss Manners suggested a neutral response like “How nice for them” and subtly hinted at inquiring about their charitable contributions.
The column ended with a reminder to send questions to Miss Manners through her website, email, or postal mail. The engaging mix of advice and humor in Miss Manners’ responses is sure to keep readers entertained and informed on proper etiquette in various social situations.
